Thursday, 29 December 2011

Sahar Gul's story

Her name is Sahar Gul and it means Dawn's Flower but her experience is far from a flower.
She is fifeen and have been locked in a bathroom at her husband's house and was tortured by husband and his family for months.  Finally rescud.  Here is the link below, but please be aware that the pictures are very disturbing.   I had to turn away from it and listen to the story. As it is not in English then you have to see what was going on!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ipxJkjHTFk

Also related story on The Telegraph!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/afghanistan/8979354/Afghan-girl-locked-in-lavatory-for-5-months.html

Wednesday, 28 December 2011

Message for end of year 2011 and start of 2012


Dear all,

I would like to show gratitude to all of you, who have been in touch with me in any way and had worked with either personally, through my professional work and through British Afghan Womens Society or other charitable activities.  Here are few short points I would like to share with you all.
    We need to leave behind any negative feelings or experiences we had in the year 2011.  Let go of them and move into the New Year with positivity and productivity.   Let this new year 2012 brings health, happiness and peace to our homes, our countries and our shared home the earth.
    I am proud of myself to be able to say that I am generally happy of my activities in the past year.   Also, I am most proud of my family, friends and colleagues for their support in every way, shape or form.
    Every one taught me some thing this year.  My children (son Patris and daughter Hila) were my biggest teachers.
    The one matter that I want to bring to the attention of my fellow Afghans is to (Being positive, effective and united where necessary), in order to stop the sufferings of innocent people Next year.
    I really want to see a positive change in the world and improvement in my own life at the end of 2012.
      I want to be able to widen my network of friends and colleagues and to support as many people as  possible and practical. I also want to be healthy and happy in the next year.

Thursday, 1 December 2011

Story of Gulnaz- President intervenes in case of 19-year-old woman who has spent two years in jail after reporting rape by a relative


Afghan woman to be freed from jail after agreeing to marry rapist

Afghan woman
Half the women in Afghan jails have been imprisoned for 'moral crimes'. Photograph: Emilio Morenatti/AP
An Afghan woman jailed for adultery after she was raped by a relative is set to be freed – but only after agreeing to marry the man who attacked her.
The case, which has highlighted the plight of Afghan women jailed for so-called moral crimes, was to be the subject of a documentary film funded by the European Union – until diplomats censored it out of fear for the woman's welfare, and for their relations with the Afghan government.
But the decision not to broadcast the film, unintentionally led to a storm of publicity that has resulted in the Afghan president, Hamid Karzai, intervening in the case of the 19-year-old woman, named Gulnaz.
Karzai, who will soon head to an international conference on Afghanistanin Bonn to seek financial support from foreign donors, ordered Gulnaz to be released on condition that she and her attacker agree to mediation.
In a statement released on Thursday night, the presidential palace said Gulnaz would be released after she agreed to become the second wife of her rapist – a prospect that supporters say she had dreaded.
In Afghan culture, marrying the father of a child born out of wedlock is seen as a way of "legitimising" the child, even in cases involving rape.
The documentary's British director, Clementine Malpas, said Gulnaz's decision would have been made under duress. "She has told me that the rapist had destroyed her life because no one else would marry her after what happened to her," Malpas said. "She feels like she has no other option than to marry him and it's the only way to bring peace between her and his family.
"I know she wants honour but I also know she doesn't want to marry this man. And of course I am worried about what the future holds for her because of this decision."
In Malpas's film Gulnaz says she would never forgive her attacker but adds that she would consider marrying him. "I don't want people to call her (her daughter) a bastard and abuse my brothers. My brothers won't have honour in our society until he marries me," she says.
Gulnaz was jailed for 12 years for adultery after she reported being raped by a cousin by marriage in an attack that left her pregnant. As the case became publicised, the sentence was reduced to three years. She has spent the past two and a half years in jail, during which time she gave birth to a daughter. Malpas, 30, had spent months following Gulnaz's case after being commissioned by the EU to make a documentary on women's rights in Afghanistan.
News of Gulnaz's ordeal prompted an American lawyer to launch a petition, which attracted more than 6,000 signatures demanding her release. This helped prompt the meeting between Karzai and senior figures in the Afghan justice system, including the head of the supreme court, the justice minister and the attorney general.
The attorney general and justice minister visited both Gulnaz and her attacker in their jails to seek their approval for the union.
Gulnaz's lawyer, Kimberley Motley, said: "My concern is that an illiterate woman, in the face of high-level government officials, all men I believe, would be a very intimidating situation for her."
Motley and Malpas and other supporters had arranged for Gulnaz to be taken to a safehouse if she was released unconditionally.
The case is far from unique. Roughly half of the country's 600 adult female prison inmates have been imprisoned for similar "offences".
Heather Barr, Human Rights Watch's Afghanistan researcher, who has spent the past month visiting female prisoners for an upcoming report on "moral crimes", welcomed the release of Gulnaz and said she hoped there was a review of all the cases of female prisoners.
"There are hundreds of women in this situation and it is well overdue to look at the injustices done to them," she said.
"I have interviewed 58 of them in the past month and have heard the same types of stories of forced marriages, beatings, sexual assaults, and when they flee these abuses and report them, they are locked up."Barr agreed it was possible that the Karzai administration had been encouraged to look at some of the serious human rights problems that remain in Afghanistan in the runup to Monday's Bonn conference, and hoped it would remain on the agenda once that concludes. The European Union, which has remained largely silent in the face of mounting publicity about the case said it was delighted about news of Gulnaz's release.
The European Union's ambassador and special representative to Afghanistan, Vygaudas Usackas, said: "Her case has served to highlight the plight of Afghan women, who, 10 years after the overthrow of the Taliban regime, often continue to suffer in unimaginable conditions, deprived of even the most basic human rights.
"Highlighting and improving the lives of Afghan women is one of the most important tasks of the EU's mission in Afghanistan."

Next Women

Women's stories inspiration to others. We must share and learn lessons and experiences:



http://www.thenextwomen.com/2011/11/30/janet-hanson-ceo-pioneering-entrepreneur-connecting-extraordinary-women