Thursday, 28 June 2012

مهمترین چیز هاییکه  در زنده گی روزمره برای انسان ها آسایش نسبی  زیادتر بوجود میآورند: 

  1. شنیدن -   با توجه کافی / به گونه درست و مثبت/ دانستن احساس سخنران و دریافت نکات مفید
  2. پرسیدن -   بخاطر دریافت معلومات / سبب مکالمه مستقیم/ متمرکز نمودن توجه به مطلب و دعوت دیگران به سخن گفتن
  3. و یا گفت و شنود -   با مسوولیت یعنی  اینکه دیگران از آن برداشت مثبت نمایند/ نه آنکه آنانرا-  برای اینکه  از سخنان ما برداشت غلط نموده اند مسوول بدانیم.    
باید بکوشیم تا احساس آنهارا دریابیم- تا بدانیم که در اطراف ما چه میگذرد.  احساس شنوایی و دید انسان ها 
متفاوت است  و برداشت شان از آنچه شما میگويید نیز بیسیار باهم تفاوتدارد.


بهتر است کار درست کنیم یا هیچ کاری نکنیم  تا آنکه  اشتباه انجام دادن یگان کار  غلط را بکنیم.
بهتر است وقت را که برنمیگردد با بهبود بخشیدن و بالابردن سطح دانش ‍و ظرفیت کاری خودما بکار گیریم تا آنکه بخواهیم به دبگران صدمه و ضرر برسانیم.  

بلی - سخنان بیسیار ساده و عام فهم اما درعمل پیاده نمودن آن بیسیار مشکل است.  اگر قبول نمیکنید بیآیید   با انجام آن خود را امتحان کنیم!



Tuesday, 5 June 2012

Dear all,

I am sharing this post with you because I want to take you through the journey I have been during the week of Afghan New Year March 2012.  On arrival and throughout the hard times I faced it there it did not seem the same as before.  The times that the Happiness of the New Year- Nawroz could be shown from miles away in the faces of people and the city.

I am talking about the winter appeal relief mission for organising and coordinating an international airlift  and personally accompanied the goods from Bagraam airport to Kabul city for distribution to refugee camps facing various armed checkpoints at the middle of night.



Cindy Goodboo  Kalitta Air shared her thoughts with colleagues;

I could not get Zarghona off my mind. So I sat and wrote what was buzzing in my head. I figured you could relate so I’m sending it off to you....remember this is just an outline of thought.
Imagine if you will...After miles of travel to run from the violence of war around them, to end up in inadequate camps for survival feeling safer then where their homes were, has got to be devastating enough, as well as wondering where their next meal will come from.
To be forced to move from your own home for safety due to mankind, and now nature has to slowly creep into their camps with temperature falling below zero. To be so tiny, and be so cold, not understanding why the world is so bold. To be so young and can’t speak, as their parents do their best to keep them alive.
To flee from war in a panic to try to save your family, then to watch them freeze to death in your arms...with little they can do. As they wipe away their child’s last tear.
A child to young to understand and parents with no answers, feeling helpless and hopeless as they watch their children suffer. One can only imagine the pain they must be enduring. Especially when, their child’s little hands grasp their finger and their eyes stare up to them one last time. To give birth and watch it fade away in their arms all within a short time is more punishment then any parent should endure.
And then one day their prayers were answered when a woman by the name of Zarghona Rassa came into their lives and heard their cries.
Her courage says it all. A question one must ask themselves...could I have been Zarghona and took that chance? Could I stand before these soldiers with their AK-47? Zarghona did, Zarghona believed in what she was doing, and had faith to take these risks to save these innocent children and to give some relief to these poor families.
Zarghona truly is a “miracle” to many families whose prayers have been answered. Zarghona is an example of strength and courage. We should all follow her footsteps, understanding that these innocent children deserve a chance to live.
Through Zarghona and the help of their organization they truly have given dozens of children a second chance at life... Who said prayers are never heard? Zarghona heard them. This was truly a test for Zarghona and an answer from God.
Zarghona’s determination shall be passed on to my grandchildren, her life is not an elusion but a touch of reality, and they will know her name.
Zarghona’s name will be carried with me in my life and taken with me to my grave. As she is admire most for her faith.
Cindy Goodboo



Sunday, 8 April 2012

Winter2012 Emergency Appeal Mission


An overview of Winter 012- A week long  Emergency Mission. Photo Gallery of Zarghona's Trip and comments via Emotion Reports!   Huge Thanks to All supporting allies of the mission, who made this mission successful.
http://emotionreportscom.blogspot.com/2012/04/volunteers-airlines-lift-tons-of-baby.html

Saturday, 3 March 2012

Afghan Secret Prostitute

نصایح زرتشت به پسرش

آنچه را گذشته است فراموش کن و بدانچه نرسیده است رنج و اندوه مبر
قبل از جواب دادن فکر کن
هیچکس را تمسخر مکن
نه به راست و نه به دروغ قسم مخور
خود برای خود، زن انتخاب کن
به شرر و دشمنی کسی راضی مشو
تا حدی که می توانی، از مال خود داد و دهش نما
کسی را فریب مده تا دردمندنشوی
از هرکس و هرچیز مطمئن مباش
بیگناه باش تا بیم نداشته باشی
سپاس دار باش تا لایق نیکی باشی
راستگو باش تا استقامت داشته باشی
متواضع باش تا دوست بسیار داشته باشی
دوست بسیار داشته باش تا معروف باشی
معروف باش تا زندگانی به نیکی گذرانی
دوستدار دین باش تا پاک و راست گردی
مطابق وجدان خود رفتار کن که بهشتی شوی
سخی و جوانمرد باش تا آسمانی باشی
روح خود را به خشم و کین آلوده مساز
در انجمن نزد مرد نادان منشین که تو را نادان ندانند
اگر خواهی از کسی دشنام نشنوی کسی را دشنام مده
دورو و سخن چین مباشانجمن نزدیک دروغگو منشین
چالاک باش تا هوشیار باشی
سحر خیز باش تا کار خود را به نیکی به انجام رسانی
اگرچه افسون مار خوب بدانی ولی دست به مار مزن تا تو را نگزد و نمیری
با هیچکس و هیچ آیینی پیمان شکنی مکن که به تو آسیب نرسد
مغرور و خودپسند مباش، زیرا انسان چون مشک پرباد است و اگر باد آن خالی شود

چیزی باقی نمی ماند

Sunday, 26 February 2012

Singers Ustad Khyal and Merman Zheela

Afghanistan- 1960s Music Male and Female singers,  Half a century gone what a "progress" Afghanistan has made?  Where are we and where is the rest of the world?  Amust watch!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3puGo6DYISU&feature=related

Saturday, 25 February 2012

My short Doc about Afghan Women MPs and link to Sitara Achekzai's clip!

 This is a link for  my short Documentary with Afghan Female Parliameterians  Kabul.  Filmed  2010 and 2011.  Longer version on its way.


http://7billionactions.votigo.com/contests/showentry/1025483


Sitara Achekzai was the sister of one of my favorite  English language teacher's Bashira Achekzai 1970s in Kandahar Zarghona Anaa High School.  Rest in Peace!

Sitara Acekzai was a memeber of Provincial Council in Kandahar.  Here is a link for a tv clip about her: